There’s a right tool for everything, and that applies to emotional intelligence as well. Just like you wouldn’t use a hammer to fix a car, you can waste a lot of effort (and even cause some damage) by speaking the wrong love language to your partner.
If you’ve just emerged from a time capsule in the ’60s, welcome to the future! In this world, the majority of women have jobs, which means housework doesn’t come with a gender anymore. To keep your relationship healthy, it’s probably best to share it equally.
When you’ve got a bone to pick with your partner, a simple conversation can easily turn into a nasty argument. Try the “I Feel, I Need” formula to keep a simple conversation from exploding into a fight.