Why I'm Quitting Facebook

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I've been a heavy user of various social media platforms over the years. I started using Twitter and Facebook in 2007. And for much of that time, I've had good experiences and enjoyed sharing updates, photos and news with friends and family that are spread across the world. But the relationship has soured over that time and I've decided enough is enough. I've taken the first step to escaping Facebook.

Over the years Facebook has morphed from a college tool for connecting students within and across US college campuses to a global platform providing commerce and advertising alongside the ability to share more and more information. When I look back at my first posts and compare them to the kind of content I can post now, it's clear that Facebook has been consuming more and more of whatever I have to give it.

A couple of months ago I spent some time curating my Facebook feed to reduce the number of ads I was seeing and to get rid of groups and pages I'd followed in the past but had most interest in.

That made a difference but I’m still not really happy. I’m finding many people are less capable of informed debate and respectful disagreement. Sometimes I’d participate in a discussion only to find people resorting to name-calling and insults when there’s disagreement.

Frankly, I’m all for listening to diverse perspectives but I don’t need that crap in my life.

I started thinking about leaving Facebook when the Cambridge Analytica scandal broke. But I decided to give Facebook a chance to show they are able to fix things.

But instead of things getting better, they have slipped. And revelations that millions of security credentials were stored with very little security and were accessed with very little oversight.

Facebook’s entire business model is built upon our content. If we don’t share and engage its value to the company’s shareholders and to us is limited. And over the last few months my contributions to Facebook have reduced to the point where I comment on maybe one friend’s update every day or so and rarely post anything of my own.

I’ve also been thinking about all the photos, check-ins and other updates I’ve made that include other people. Now that my biological kids are older, and I’ve given it a lot more thought, I have shared their lives without permission.

Given that, it time for me to go.

Delete or deactivate?

When you’re leaving Facebook you have a couple of options.

If you delete your account Facebook says it will delete all your content. And you lose access to Messenger.

Deactivating suspends your Facebook account. No data is deleted but your account is inaccessible. Messenger keeps working.

I’ve decided to deactivate my account for now. I’ve deleted the Facebook app from my smartphone and tablet. The main reason I’ve not deleted for now is that I rely on Messenger to stay in contact with some friends and business contacts.

If you're a page administrator, you'll need to make sure there are other admins or those pages will eventually disappear.

Unless I come up with a compelling reason to keep my account, I’ll go back in, download all my content and then delete my account.

What about Instagram and WhatsApp?

I've got - or I should say I had - an Instagram account but it's gone now. I wasn't a big user so deleting instagram isn't a bog loss.

I'm hanging on to WhatsApp though. It's an essential tool for business communications, particularly when I travel. And while it's not perfect and I'd prefer to use Signal or something more secure it's ubiquity makes it hard to ditch.


Comments

    Ya shoulda done it waayyy sooner Anthony!

      Yeah - I've significantly curtailed my activity recently. I'm noticing that there is a cost though - there are a few family members who i keep up with through Facebook so i'll need a plan B for them

    Speaking of Signal, check out Telegram and Wire.

      Yeah - I've tried both of those before. It's all about trying to consolidate the number of services I use. And that's partially driven by what other people use. So Signal works for me as that's what my friends use (I'm trying to convince my kids and wife to use it as well). But Telegram and Wire are well regarded as well.

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