Dear Lovehacker, What do you do when a colleague confesses their love to you and you still have to work with them?
When you're faced with making a decision that involves yourself, it's difficult to be rational because you're trapped in your own world and biases. One way to get past these is to ask yourself, "If this was about someone else that I love and care about, what would I tell them?"
If you love making your knuckles and other joints pop, you might've heard that doing so is "bad for you" and that "you'll get arthritis". Short answer: We're not sure. Long answer: This video from Vox gives you the lowdown on what's actually happening in your joints.
Sharing your finances is a tough topic in itself, but thankfully we're talking metaphorically today. If you want to maintain a healthy relationship, view it as a bank account that needs regular deposits of positivity to thrive.