If you own your home, it tracks that everything on your property belongs to you. But as you get closer and closer to your property lines, the space gets a bit more liminal: If there’s a fence separating your property from your neighbour’s, it’s a shared feature, even if only one of you technically owns it. After all, a fence defines both private properties, and you both benefit from it.
That’s why practising proper fence etiquette is vital. A fence can literally form the edge where two lives rub up against each other, and it can be a source of friction if you’re not careful. And since fence ownership and rights can be vague and complicated, it’s in everyone’s best interests to follow a few simple rules to ensure that minor fencing disputes don’t grow into major problems. Here are the rules you need to follow so you’re always on the right side of fence etiquette.
The rule of fence etiquette is to always know what you’re talking about. That starts with knowing your property lines: If the fence was already in place when you bought the house, you probably have no idea if it’s on your property, your neighbour’s, or on the line itself. If it’s entirely on your property, it’s your fence and vice versa—if it’s literally on the boundary line, it’s a boundary fence and your local area may have specific laws governing how that’s handled. If you’re not sure of your property lines, you might need to have a land survey done to establish them.
Most local governments have specific requirements for the height, style, and other aspects of fences, and if you have a homeowner’s association (HOA), you should check if they have any rules regarding fencing as well. You want to know everything so you can avoid inadvertently breaking the law—or offending a neighbour.
Finally, if you’re building a new fence, you’ll need to know if your neighbours enjoy what is known as “prescriptive easements” on your property. An example of an easement is when a neighbour has to drive across a small section of your private property to access their own lot. If they’ve enjoyed that access for a long time, the law may recognize it as a right, and you could get into trouble if you suddenly fence that access off (not to mention making an enemy of your neighbour). Again, you’ll want to know about that before making any fence-related decisions.
Practice the rules of fence etiquette
Once you’re armed with the facts about your fence, property lines, and local requirements, you’re ready to have all the fence conversations with your neighbour. Here are the general rules of fence etiquette that will avoid an all-out Neighbour War:
Respect property lines
Knowing where your property ends and your neighbours’ begins is one thing—respecting those lines is another. Don’t let your fence dribble over onto the lot next door just to avoid some rocky dirt or to shave a few dollars off the installation costs without discussing it with your neighbour and obtaining permission.
Communicate before changing things
Many local governments require you to alert your neighbours about a fence installation or replacement, but you should do so even if there’s no such law in your area.
Avoid unilateral decisions
Even if the fence is entirely on your property and thus your property, always discuss changes with your neighbours before doing anything to a fence. They don’t own it, but they will appreciate having the opportunity to make you aware of any unforeseen impact your plans might have on them.
Respect the neighbourhood style
When building or replacing a fence, your HOA may have a lot to say about style and material. Your local government may have a lot to say about height and other requirements. But you should also take care to keep your fence in line with the look and feel of the neighbourhood. Yes, it’s your property to do with as you will (within reason), but fences are weirdly shared aspects of your property. The courteous thing to do is to blend yours in with the rest.
Install with the good side out
Many fences have “finished” and “unfinished” sides. The unfinished side has the bracing and supports, the finished “good” side looks nice and clean. The good side should always face your neighbour. Again, this is simple courtesy, and doing so can avoid bad blood.
Don’t insist on sharing the expense
The laws regarding maintenance and fence-related expenses vary widely around the country, and are often a bit vague and difficult to enforce. If you think your neighbour should pay for some portion of a fence repair or replacement, you should broach the subject, but keep in mind that you probably can’t force them to pony up. If they refuse, your best bet is to just walk away.
If your neighbour is willing to share some of the fence expenses with you, they should get a vote on how the work is done. If you don’t agree on a style, material, or other aspect of the fence, try to find a compromise that works for you both.
A fence offers security, privacy, and—if done correctly—beauty to a property. They can keep the peace between neighbors by being a buffer zone—or they can be something to fight about. Good fence etiquette can avoid a lot of problems.
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