Dear Lovehacker, My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years and we're really happy. But for the past six months or so she hasn't been orgasming very often during sex and only when I'm rubbing her clitoris. I know that changing up routines can be helpful for long term couples, but she's sexually very shy and only really interested in the missionary position. What should I do?
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