gary chapman

  • How to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language to Have Better Sex

    How to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language to Have Better Sex

    Deciphering and understanding your partner’s likes, dislikes, and interests in the bedroom can often feel like you’re both speaking a foreign language to each other. For example, you might prefer to cuddle before and after sex to show how much you care while your partner might prefer positive (and even dirty) communication as a form…


  • How to Recognise If You’re Being ‘Lovebombed’ by a Narcissist

    How to Recognise If You’re Being ‘Lovebombed’ by a Narcissist

    Gary Chapman’s 1992 book The Five Love Languages described the various ways that people display affection in romantic relationships. It became something of a cultural touchstone, putting in relatable terms how people use physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, and giving gifts to demonstrate admiration. But when do displays of love…