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https://www.lifehacker.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/20/1347711778684589743.jpg?quality=75636358When you’re in an argument, it’s only natural to want to explain your position as fast and as often as possible. However, if you want to argue more effectively, ask your opponent to explain their perspective in detail first.