Orgasms are great. They feel amazing, they’re fun to have, and the work you have to put in to get them doesn’t feel like work at all! But apart from feeling really damn good, they also have a number of hidden benefits.

Chances are, you might be reading this and thinking that it's just people with penises who should be responsible for how long sex lasts. But since ‘sex’ can refer to any sort of consensual sexual activity, there’s no reason why people with vaginas can’t learn techniques to prolong the play too.

Thought you might never reuse the Halloween cat costume you got last year? Think again! Costumes aren’t just for Christmas, Halloween or Easter. They can be used any (or every) night of the year to enhance your sex play. That’s right, we’re talking about role play, how to initiate it, and why it’s great.

So you’ve just treated yourself to a new toy, powered it up and popped your cookies. But did you know that, beyond their obvious skills, your toys are hiding unexpected talents? Here are our favourite sex toy hacks to help you get the most out of your new bedroom pleasure pal.

This week we have a lady who can't stand it when her boyfriend gawks at other women. Will she finally tell him how it makes her feel and get the respect she deserves? Or will he be too busy staring at other girls to see her walking away for good?

Whether you’re the kind of person who always opts for the finer things in life, or you just fancy treating yourself to a posh wank, ultra-deluxe sex toys have all the bells and whistles to satisfy your needs.

We’re often told technology has no place in the bedroom. And while that may be true for using our smartphones or tablets just before bedtime, when it comes to sex, it’s a very different story.

Technology and sex toys go hand in hand. More and more advances in the sex toy world have allowed people to experience a better sex life, whether that’s alone or with a partner.

Most people's only association with sex clubs are the creepy scenes from Eyes Wide Shut. But sex clubs can actually be quite varied, and a lot of fun.

Dr Nikki Goldstein is a sexologist, relationship councilor and author of Single But Dating: A Field Guide to Dating in the Digital Age. She knows precisely what causes relationships to flourish - or descend into disaster. If you never seem to get past the first date, you're probably guilty of one of the following behaviors.

If you’re reading this, it’s quite possible you have - or at the very least, someone you know has - tried a sex toy. And of course why wouldn’t you? They’re great. You might use yours every day or only break it out as a birthday treat, either way it’s likely to give you some bloody awesome orgasms. The kind of orgasms, in fact, that you might want for your significant other. If you need more persuading as to why your boyfriend needs a sex toy then here are seven failsafe reasons.

When the world's first dating website appeared, it was largely considered to be a lonely hearts club for computer-savvy losers. Fast-forward to the present day and online dating has become the preferred method of meeting potential partners for millions of people around the world. Unfortunately, this can make it pretty hard to get noticed! Whether you're new to online dating, struggling to make connections or just want to lift your game, these ten tips will help to improve your chances.

Like your favourite jeans, or that ever-flattering LBD that takes the guesswork out of getting ready, good lingerie can make you feel fantastic. Whether your lingerie drawer is home to 10 identical pairs of black briefs, a trusty T-shirt bra and a tangle of tights, or so much satin it looks like Dita VT’s dressing up box, what if we told you you could give it an easy overhaul by adding just five pieces?

A threesome very well may be the most common sexual fantasy - but as common as it is, it's tricky to make happen in real life. Here's your guide to turning this fantasy into a reality.

Recently, New York attorney general Eric Schneiderman was accused by four women of physical assault during sex. Schneiderman responded by saying that the hitting, choking, and slapping he's accused of were part of kinky "roleplaying." All four women say they never consented to engage in these types of behaviours. Whether or not Schneiderman was indeed "roleplaying" at all, the case is opening up a vitally important conversation about consent, particularly within the context of kink and BDSM.

Here's what you need to know to get it right.

Edging is essentially orgasm control, in which either you or a partner are brought to the point of orgasm, then stopping just before reaching the peak in order to make the eventual climax strong and more intense.

If someone were to tell you there are various types of orgasms that women can have, what would your reaction be? Surely, an orgasm is an orgasm and there’s only a couple of ways to reach that big ‘O’? Think again! It turns out women can achieve 12 different types of orgasms. Yes, 12! Read on to find out more about the ‘Dirty Dozen’ and how you can have them (or give them).

Why do people in happy relationships sometimes wind up cheating? According to relationship expert Esther Perel, the answer lies in self-exploration and has very little to do with the partner who is being cheated on.

The origin of Shibari is thought to lie in Hojo-jutsu, a martial art used by Samurai in Japan in 1400 to restrain prisoners. To show their prisoners respect, they used rope, different tying techniques and patterns to symbolise the social status of their prisoner, as well as the type and severity of the crime.

Hojo-jutsu took on a new, erotic form in the late 19th Century and became Kinbaku (Kinbaku-bi translates as ‘the beauty of tight binding’) – in today’s western world, it’s called Shibari.

Whether you want to bungee jump off Macau Tower, swim with dolphins or catch your favourite band in concert, we bet you have a memorised list of ‘musts’ you’re dying to tick off your to-do list.

But what about when it comes to sex?