friendship

  • How to Build Meaningful Relationships, According to Plato

    How to Build Meaningful Relationships, According to Plato

    When we’re younger, maybe our relationships are more grounded in the physical than the spiritual and emotional. But underlying the foundation of any enduring relationship is a certain kind of love, and at the crux of this spiritual connection are the teachings of the philosopher Plato.


  • How to Choose the Best Kind of Friend for You, According to Aristotle

    How to Choose the Best Kind of Friend for You, According to Aristotle

    Aristotle was pretty perceptive about issues that still carry an urgency in modern times: Friends of utility, pleasure, and mutual admiration still exist, as are the respective styles of friendship that you might encounter over the course of a relationship. You can filter Aristotle’s concept through the lens of modern psychology to better understand what…


  • Why Can’t I Be Happy When My Friends Are Winning at Life?

    Why Can’t I Be Happy When My Friends Are Winning at Life?

    We’ve all been in this situation before. A friend shares good news, like “I got my dream job”, “I’m moving to Italy” or “I’m engaged”, and there’s a celebratory embrace. But within seconds, behind the veil, that inner voice takes the microphone and squashes the moment, yelling, “but what about me?” The mind quickly scrambles…