discipline

  • The Right Way To Respond When Kids Talk Back

    A friend of mine once went on a tirade about how she would not raise a disrespectful kid. “That’s just not happening,” she said. “He will not talk back. Respect is way too important to me, and I won’t put up with him being rude.” Her son was about a year old at the time.…


  • Get Your Kid To Act Differently With A ‘Complaint Sandwich’

    Chances are good that you’ve heard of the “compliment sandwich” technique for giving criticism. Praise, followed by criticism, followed by more praise. It’s supposed to be used as a way to soften the criticism, although it can come off as insincere if not delivered well. Its cousin, though — which one psychologist calls the “complaint…