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Don’t Be a Defensive Listener, and Other Ways to Fight ‘Better’ With Your Partner
It’s natural to get defensive when we feel misunderstood, especially in romantic relationships. Open communication is key to any relationship, but a defensive reaction — which likely reads as hostile to your partner — will quickly shut down any hopes of overcoming misreads and misunderstandings. Luckily the same simple communication tips that can help you…