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The origin of Shibari is thought to lie in Hojo-jutsu, a martial art used by Samurai in Japan in 1400 to restrain prisoners. To show their prisoners respect, they used rope, different tying techniques and patterns to symbolise the social status of their prisoner, as well as the type and severity of the crime.

Hojo-jutsu took on a new, erotic form in the late 19th Century and became Kinbaku (Kinbaku-bi translates as ‘the beauty of tight binding’) – in today’s western world, it’s called Shibari.

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Hand jobs don't get the respect they deserve. They're an activity that many people (especially heterosexual people) haven't done since they were teenagers. But, just like fingering a woman, manually stroking a man can be one of the best ways to give focused stimulation. Here's everything you need to know to give a fantastic hand job.

Predicting the future is near impossible -- but that doesn‘t stop us all from having a red hot go. Human beings have been predicting the future since the beginning of history and the results range from the hilarious to the downright uncanny.

One thing all future predictions have in common: they‘re rooted in our current understanding of how the world works. It‘s difficult to escape that mindset. We have no idea how technology will evolve, so our ideas are connected to the technology of today.

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So you’ve devoured the books, watched the movies, and you’re eager to indulge in a little Fifty Shades of Grey roleplay. Of course, our favourite scenes from the books are the ones which unfold in the infamous Red Room of Pain, Christian’s luxuriously furnished, leather and mahogany-clad playroom.

We’re not suggesting you soundproof your spare room or turn your home office into a den of iniquity just yet – for starters you probably don’t have Mr Grey’s magical money tree! But with a few toys, tweaks and accessories you can enjoy Red Room-inspired revelry, too.

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Anal foreplay is often overlooked, as many people think it’s just a warm-up for anal sex (and not everyone is into that). However, the entrance to the anus is packed with nerve endings, making it highly sensitive, and there’s no reason why you shouldn’t explore if you’re intrigued.

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Traditionally, sex is a contact sport, so what do you do to keep the intimacy alive when there’s physical distance between you and your beau? Thankfully, technology makes long distance feel a lot less, well, long.

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Most people think of sex as a nighttime activity - but it can be even more enjoyable first thing in the morning. You were going to hit the snooze button a few times anyway, so why not do something fun instead? Here's how to have fantastic morning sex.

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Like so many other aspects of female sexuality, the G-spot is typically -- and unfairly -- thought of as mysterious, elusive, and complex. In reality, it's not that complicated. It's a part of a woman's body that -- for some women -- can create a lot of pleasure. End of story. Here's how to find her G-spot, and what to do with it once you do.

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Fingering is one of the best ways to pleasure a female-bodied person. It allows you to give her really targeted, focused stimulation, and can be one of the best ways to help her have an orgasm. Compared to oral sex or intercourse, it's also relatively non-taxing for the giver. Here's what you need to know to finger a woman.

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Do you miss your old sex life? Think back to the early days, when sexual tension lingered every time you and your lover met eyes. What was once fiery, new and exciting is now slow, tired and frustratingly infrequent. What changed?

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The chances are you already own a sex toy – a trusty favourite that works for you, whether it’s a wand, a bells-and-whistles rabbit or a buzzing bullet vibe. And while some lucky women orgasm through penetration, for most it's the clitoris that holds the key to orgasmic bliss.

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Talking dirty is hot in and of itself, and it's also great for your sex life. It helps you stay more present in the moment, and more tuned in to what you're experiencing. It helps you develop more sexual self-confidence. It helps your partner learn what you like, and lowers their performance anxiety. It's also a low-stress way to play with fantasies. Here's how to talk dirty for beginners.

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There’s a common belief that double-ended dildos are for lesbians only (thanks mainly to porn films). But these days, people of all sexualities are discovering the delights that double-ended dildos can bring. If you're looking to very literally 'share the pleasure' with your partner, or even yourself, double dildos are for you.

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The grapefruit, a citrus fruit normally consumed for breakfast, but these days it is not being used just as food: it has also been seen as a nifty blowjob aid.

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If someone were to tell you there are various types of orgasms that women can have, what would your reaction be? Surely, an orgasm is an orgasm and there’s only a couple of ways to reach that big ‘O’? Think again! It turns out women can achieve 12 different types of orgasms. Yes, 12! Read on to find out more about the ‘Dirty Dozen’ and how you can have them (or give them).

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Prostate, P-spot, Milkman-delivery-drop-off-point - whatever you want to call it, if you haven’t played with it, you’re missing out. Located just a few inches inside the anus, this incredible erogenous zone is within easy reach!

When stimulated, or massaged, the prostate, or p-spot, can produce explosive orgasms that can leave a man’s entire body trembling, or, even better, lead to multiple orgasms. If the notion of explosive orgasms weren’t enough to tempt you, here’s the why and the how.

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Often sadly overlooked in the box of toys for bigger, shinier offerings, the blindfold is actually a surprisingly sexy bedroom must-have. Whether you’re a bondage aficionado who’s bypassed the blindfold, or a sex toy newbie who’s yet to make their first foray into the seductive world of bondage play, the blindfold can offer a world of new sensations and sexual enjoyment. It's time to open your eyes to the benefits.

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While for many people the idea of bondage conjures up images of a man or woman chained to a bedpost, possibly by some fluffy pink handcuffs, bondage is about a lot more than that. Though the aspect of being tied up - or doing the tying - is a big, and fun part of bondage, there is a lot more to explore.

Whether you want to pull parts of the body together, spread other parts, secure one limb to another or the entire body to an object, there are ways and means to do so in the most thrilling of ways.

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If all you know about male sex toys is the plastic blow-up dolls tailing around after riotous bachelor parties, it’s no surprise you wouldn't be that interested in them. But male sex toys have come a long way since the days of plastic dolls (though, they’re certainly around in abundance if that is your thing) and there are now some incredibly innovative and exciting toys on the market.

With different designs for pleasure during solo play, foreplay and sex, there are tons of exciting toys to choose from. Many can be used in a variety of scenarios so it all depends on the type of pleasure you’re looking for. Here’s a look into some of the most popular.