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  • This Is How Much Online ‘Stalking’ You Should Do Before a Date

    This Is How Much Online ‘Stalking’ You Should Do Before a Date

    Part of the reason that Hinge is my favourite dating app is the ability for people to really show some of their personality in their profile prompts. In addition to basic safety and vibe concerns, it’s useful to have a jumping off point for small talk about each other’s interests. Similarly, I’ve argued before why…


  • How to Deal With a Work Bully

    How to Deal With a Work Bully

    Do you have a work bully? Don’t be embarrassed if you do. Unnecessarily mean and aggressive peers are typically associated with high school, but don’t fool yourself: There are cruel adults out there, too, and you could easily end up working with one.


  • When You Should ‘Grey Rock’ the Narcissists in Your Life

    When You Should ‘Grey Rock’ the Narcissists in Your Life

    Sometimes, when an emotionally manipulative person seeks to cause drama, you might want to offer a response commensurate with their behaviour. Except, you should really consider doing the opposite: Namely, acting like there’s nothing you can offer in terms of engagement, and remain as placid as a lake on a wind-free afternoon.