Vanessa Marin

Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist who helps people have way more fun in the bedroom. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com to check out online programs like Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.
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  • PSA: There Are Two Different Types Of Sex Drive

    PSA: There Are Two Different Types Of Sex Drive

    Vanessa Marin

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    When you think about sexual desire, you usually only thing of one thing — craving sex. But there are actually two completely different types of sex drive: Spontaneous desire and responsive desire. Read on for the differences between the two, how to know which one you are, and what it means for your sex life.

  • The Straight Man’s Guide To Anal Play

    The Straight Man’s Guide To Anal Play

    Vanessa Marin

    Nope, we’re not talking about putting your penis in your lady’s arsehole. We’re talking about stimulating your arsehole. If you’re like many straight guys, your interest in this article just plummeted. Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play (to be fair, many bi and gay men are too), and…

  • How To Have BDSM Sex That’s Safe And Consensual 

    How To Have BDSM Sex That’s Safe And Consensual 

    Vanessa Marin

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    Recently, New York attorney general Eric Schneiderman was accused by four women of physical assault during sex. Schneiderman responded by saying that the hitting, choking, and slapping he’s accused of were part of kinky “roleplaying.” All four women say they never consented to engage in these types of behaviours. Whether or not Schneiderman was indeed…

  • How To Eat Arse 

    How To Eat Arse 

    Vanessa Marin

    Art by Jim Cooke/GMG Rimming is having a moment. Long thought of as a more “advanced” sexual activity, it’s being added to the repertoires of people who would describe themselves as being fairly vanilla. Here’s everything you need to know if you’re curious about giving rimming a try.