How To Stop Your Parents From Sharing Fake News Online

How To Stop Your Parents From Sharing Fake News Online
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This week, Donald Trump made several false allegations, including one about about providing $US92 ($132) billion in Hurricane Maria relief efforts to exoneration by Robert Mueller in yesterday’s judiciary hearings.

Many websites spin false claims like these as cold, hard facts, disseminated on Facebook and Twitter and shared by countless users. Soccer play Megan Rapinoe defiantly stomped on the American flag! (She did not intentionally.) Malia Obama was arrested! (She was not.) The “fake news” phenomenon has spread globally — and it’s not something you can readily escape.

Over on Buzzfeed News, reporter Craig Silverman asked a perfectly appropriate question, given the current, totally normal news cycle: What do we do when our parents and other less internet-savvy users share fake news? We couldn’t possibly report our parents to the Facebook mods (or can we?).

Below, some strategies for education your parents on spotting fake news online, and hopefully, stemming the tide of spammy, inaccurate links in your timeline.

Provide any missing context

The next time you find your aunt sharing news of conspiracy theories — like the one about how Mr. Rogers concealed his secret past as sniper and a Navy Seal — send her a private message, filling in any missing context or correcting false statements outright.

As Buzzfeed News recommends, be positive, not confrontational, and don’t try to correct them for their entire news feed to see — unless you see the post gaining traction. In this instance, a public correction might work best to avoid future re-shares.

“If you call someone out publicly on Facebook or elsewhere, they’re likely to feel attacked or shamed, and you won’t have a chance to hear why they wanted to share a particular piece of content,” Buzzfeed News’ Silverman writes.

You should also provide links to any supporting evidence or suggest to them to conduct their own online search for a particular news item. Generally, they’ll find more credible sources while searching through headlines on Google News than on Facebook or Twitter. Also, be sure to check the date of the story. The news itself could be outdated and they should be aware of any new information.

ImagePhoto: Chris Pizzello, AP

Point out flaws in the source

So you’ve tried to convince your parents actress Betty White is still alive after several online hoaxes. If the facts aren’t evidence enough, poke holes in the source itself. Is the website credible? Has it provided stories that have been disputed in the past? Better yet, do other reputable sources reference reported stories on the website?

If you can answer “no” to any of these questions and Betty White is absolutely alive, try convincing the other party with evidence that supports it, like other links or in-depth reporting on the source itself (or a recent tweet or Instagram by White herself).

And if you need a place to start the conversation with your parents or aunts and uncles, try asking them to adopt some of these tips from ConnectSafely before they re-share a post:

Build your media literacy muscle. Fake news often plays into particular fears or beliefs, like those stories about Obama or Betty White. If a story seems especially one-sided or particularly critical of a person or idea, it could very well be fake.

Watch for odd URLs. Fake news sites often have unusual URLs, but not always. The story about former U.S. President Obama banning the pledge in schools appeared on, which shouldn’t be confused with the legitimate Fake news sites can also have legitimate-sounding names and URLs, for example, the fake news site Now8News ran false stories about a woman starving her kids so she could eat their food and McDonald’s closing 17,000 stores because of a raise in the minimum wage.

Check out the site’s About section. Satirical sites will make their mission clear.

Better yet, have them verify rumours on websites like Snopes or Politifact, which take extensive dives into verifying rumours and conspiracy theories.

Share your own verified stories

If you want to take on false information without telling off your grade school teacher, help combat its dissemination by sharing stories from reputable sources on places like Twitter or Facebook.

Before re-sharing, you should do your due diligence, using some of these other tips from ConnectSafely:

Read beyond the headline. Does the story seem balanced, with support for both sides of an issue or story? Is there a byline? If so, search the writer’s name and see what else he or she has written. If you can’t find any other stories by the author, that’s a red flag.

Look closely at the quotes. Fake news creators often don’t bother to make up quotes. If a source is identified, do a search of the source’s name or their organisation or company.

Be sceptical of photos, not just text. Photos can be stolen and placed in fake news stories to give them the feel of real ones. They can also be “photoshopped” to put people in situations or places where they have never actually been. If a photo seems suspicious, do a reverse image search.

Of course, you always have the option of reporting a particularly problematic post, too. On Facebook, just click on the post, select “Find Support or Report Post,” and select your reason for reporting the post. On Twitter, similarly, just click on the post, “Report Post,” and select your reason. Granted, it won’t necessarily stop the post from being shared unless moderators steps in.

And if this still doesn’t convince your parents of the truth, persistence is key; keep at it until they’re beaten down by indisputable facts and finally decide to dig a little deeper before hitting the “share” button.


  • My Dad shared with me the fake news story about ALP and Greens working together on a ‘death tax’ to wipe out low to middle class inheritences.

    I frowned when I saw it and thought, “Well that can’t possibly be right,” did maybe five minutes research, and provided him all the links and media debunking the lie, warning him not to be taken in by the scam. (What I didn’t say was, “Please stop sharing this with others and if anyone you’re close to has shared it with you, please set them straight, because this is important.” Kind of wish I had.)

    I don’t think it changed his mind. I’m pretty sure he still quietly thinks an anti-middle-class ‘death tax’ is a secret agenda by the ALP and Greens, because he wanted to believe it… because he doesn’t like those parties.

    He never used to be like that… ‘fairness’ was his watchword. Could be some of the residual bleed effect from being married to someone who shares every single viral ‘warning’ ever debunked by Snopes, because the world is a scary place and it’s a way you can feel like you’re protecting the people you care about. …Or something.

  • Labelling “exoneration” of Trump as fake-news allowed the author to take a political dig at Trump but it’s a cheap shot! It is NEVER the role of a US prosecutor to exonerate. That’s the role of a court in the case of wrongful conviction. The Prosecutor’s role is to indict for a crime or to decline to indict. That’s it! In the event of a declination, NO elaboration of any kind is permitted, lest it malign the subject. Mueller’s illegitimate use of the word “exoneration” and his Volume 2 smearing of Trump for alleged obstruction, makes that entire volume unauthorised and contrary to the multiple fake-news reports, not actionable once rejected by the Attorney General of the United States. The issue of Impeachment is an entirely political one. The constitutional requirement of High Crimes & Misdemeanours is stricter than the media has reported and numbers predict that it would fail miserably in any case. When determining the veracity of news, concrete, verified evidence must be the Gold Standard. Everything else is speculation!

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