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This week’s selection comes from Marcus Aurelius’s Meditations, 4.42. He comments on the true nature of change:
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What It Means
Change, in any of its forms, is not a good thing or a bad thing. It just is. Your opinions and how you react to change is where those labels come in. Abandon those notions. There’s no need to fear change, and there’s no reason to try and fight it. It’s only wasted energy.
What to Take From It
We are suspicious of change. Partly because our natural instincts tell us that change in our environment may be a danger to us in some way, but also because it forces us out of our comfort zones. We’re trapped in a perpetual state of acclimation because change comes for us no matter what, and you can’t avoid it. Aurelius goes on to say:
Time is like a river made up of the events which happen, and a violent stream; for as soon as a thing has been seen, it is carried away, and another comes in its place, and this will be carried away too.
Change, the river, is a constant. It flows and flows, and all you can do is adapt and cope. Change being forced upon you is not an evil act committed by the gods of fate in an attempt to torture your soul, it is simply the nature of reality. Turn and face the strange. Accept it. How you choose to react is all that matters. You must learn to swim in this river.
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