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Kelly McGonigal, author of The Willpower Instinct, breaks willpower into three different powers:
- I Won’t Power: what we normally think of as willpower (resisting temptation)
- I Will Power: the ability to remember you want the consequences of doing that difficult thing (e.g., drinking more water instead of a big box of wine for a healthier future self)
- I Want Power: the ability to keep a clear memory of what you care about most
Those last two things are a more positive framework that tap into your long-term goals and values and could make it easier to change habits. Just saying “no” to all the short-term temptations may not be enough.
How To Say “No!” to Almost Anything [YouTube]