If You Must Give A Gift Card This Christmas, Give Some Context Too

Gift cards get a bad rap because they're not really a gift, but rather a placeholder for one. When you give a gift card you come across as lazy and unthoughtful even when you have good cause. Fortunately, all it takes is a little message that explains your reasoning to turn a gift card into something really exciting. Dr Susan Newman, writing for Psychology Today, explains why.

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One of the best gifts my wife and I have ever received was a packet of gift cards from my parents. They were for local restaurants and came with a promise to baby sit our very young children. These were not just gift cards, but the possibility for a couple to spend valuable "us time" together, something that my folks knew was scarce in our busy lives.

When I was younger, I often requested gift cards or money so I could pay for something too expensive to ask for. Even a message that said "to help you buy that CD burner" (or whatever I was aiming for at the time) would make the gift seem thoughtful. We give gifts to make people happy, and part of that means demonstrating that you're thinking of them. If you're going to give a gift card this Christmas, a little context can go a long way.

Can't Think of a Good Holiday Gift? Give a Bad One [Psychology Today]


    Gift cards are great presents. I'd much rather receive a gift card than yet another friggin doodad to sit on the shelf uselessly gathering dust.

      Your right, I always get a buzz from receiving a gift card for something because it sure beats getting some random $20 gift that is effectively worthless!

    I buy my cousins gift cards because a) I always buy something small-medium as well, and b) at least two of them were ingrates last year when I went to a lot of trouble choosing things, so I figure this way I won't have to hear whining.

    i would much rather receive a gift card, than boxes of chocolates for my birthday.

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