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How to Deal With a Verbally Abusive Person

2:00AM Wendy Boswell | Ever been in an argument that starts getting really nasty really quick? Self-improvement site Pick the Brain suggests that you put a stop to it: Firmly but calmly state: “You’re very angry right now and you’re saying things you don’t mean (give them the benefit of the doubt). I’m going to excuse myself. We can talk again after you calm down.” Then leave the room or ask them to leave. Not only does this give the hothead time to cool down and reconsider his/her choice of words, it also saves you from retorting with words you probably will regret. Resolving Conflicts Quickly and Peacefully [Pick the Brain] More »

Transform Your Classic Xbox into a Killer Media Center

1:40AM Gina Trapani | Don’t ditch your classic Xbox just because you can’t play Halo 3 on it: nowadays it’s easier than ever to transform that old neglected console into a Unix-based media command center. While early Xbox hackers had to pry open the black box to solder on a modchip, today a software exploit lets you replace Microsoft’s crippled dashboard and run the incredible, open source Xbox Media Center (XBMC) software. You don’t have to be a hardcore gamer or Unix hacker to get your XBMC on. On Wednesday Adam showed you how to reach media nirvana with Windows Media Center and the Xbox 360, but today we’re kickin’ it old school with a classic Xbox softmod. More »